Why is this subject still so taboo? Are we so conditioned to believe that only women with questionable values and morals do this? Our mothers told us that good girls do not and put a biblical spin on it. Sex is good and all girls do it. As for oral sex women need to be reflective and introspective. If it is ok for him to spread your thighs, so that he can lick, suck, and occasionally finger fuck, then you my darling can learn how to give a mean blow job. The conversations that I have been engaged in are the reason for this blog. I am sorry ladies if you like when his face is between your legs and he comes up with his lips looking like glazed doughnuts, you need to return the favor. I was outside near my job when I heard a grown woman say that she does not give blow jobs. I was amazed, like what you mean you do not give blow jobs. All that came to my mind is that Lil’ Kim line “I used to be scared of the dick, now I throw lips to the shit. Handle it like a real Bitch.”
I am tired of hearing that shit I heard when I was younger from my mother’s generation about good girls do not. Stop that shit. Somewhere there is a bad girl with her man or your man’s penis all in her mouth. She is sucking his balls and licking the gooch. I am not saying that each man you have a sexual relationship with you should suck their dick but if this a long-term relationship, then think it over. Some of you ladies’ idea of sexual intercourse and foreplay are quite antiquated. Our mothers told us the things they told us so that we could maintain our reputations. This was not something to be carried into your bedroom as an adult. I say that because a man I know once quoted a proverb that said when I was a child I behaved and acted as a child. When I became an adult, I behaved and acted as an adult. I took that to mean leave the actions and thoughts of childhood behind. All that means is ladies grow up.
Let me help you understand the benefits of good head. Here is a quick scenario. Your lover comes home from work and he looks tired. This is the time for that mean blow job I was talking about. Tell him go shower before dinner is ready. Meet him in your bedroom while he still has that bathrobe or towel on, close and lock your bedroom door, remove the objects that impede your access, drop to your knees, and put his dick in your mouth. If you are unsure of your abilities let me help you. Ladies here is the lesson. You must go shopping to get the maximum out of this one. Buy pickles and blow pops. There are two types of head I recommend. The first is what I call the keep him hard. This one you master with the blow pop purchase. Then there is the second one. The one where your mouth and tongue make him want to explode in your mouth. This comes from the pickle purchase.
So here we go. Let us start with the pickle. First you bite a small hole at the top of the pickle. Once you have a hole that you are comfortable with the size of (Ladies please do not make the hole larger than the width of your thumb) your goal is to suck all the juice out of the pickle. Just using your mouth and tongue. This will take practice and patience, but with time you should be able to drain the pickle of all its juice. If you, do it right you should be able to replicate the same actions on his dick. Making him anxious to cum. You choose the location of the release. Now with the blow pop, your goal is to suck the hard-shell candy off until you get to the bubblegum. The trick with this one is that you must control the urge to bite. This one often takes the longest to master especially if you have an oral fixation like I do. However, once you have this one under control, you can hop of his dick mid stroke, suck all of you off him, make that dick harder than a roll of quarters, and begin again.
Before I leave you with this post just remember that there are pros and cons to every action. Weigh them out and choose the path that works for your relationship.
Love Always,
Ngina
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