Sex and Parenthood two terms that often at odds with one another. Being a parent especially a mother is complicated on its own but once you throw in intimacy it becomes complicated. Children add a certain dynamic to your sex life. Children seem to sense when you are planning for an intimate evening for two. They’re having no parts of that. You’re child who often goes straight to bed with no fuss now needs six glasses of water and has to go to the bathroom four or five times.
Children just seem to know when your going to enjoy something without them. That’s why you have to become creative. Every now and then follow the words of Miguel and indulge in a quickie. No bite marks, no scratches and no hickies. If you can get with that then come get with me. Sneak off for a quick grope in the bathroom or kitchen. Every now and then steal a moment for yourselves. Help him remember that woman you were before motherhood took over.
I’m not telling you to do anything that can harm your kids, I’m just suggesting that you prepare the children for bed earlier. Instead of 8pm try 7:30pm one night a week so that you can do all of the dirty little things you used to do that contributed to you being a parent. Once again this is only my opinion not anything more or less.
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