Tonight ladies, we’re going delve into what we like and how to get it from our partners. I’ve asked before what makes you happy, but really what makes you sexually happy? I know personally that there is a sexual part of me that I often leave unexplored. Why do you ask, well judgement? I’m not saying my current partner is judgmental but it’s just always there in the back of my mind. Recently I came across some questions that may help.
Question 1: What’s a secret spot on your body that drives you crazy when I touch it? Ladies, this question is one that I suggest that you pay attention to. In my experience this has allowed me to communicate non-verbally my interest in sex. It’s quiet communication between you and your partner. No one else should be able to decipher your request. Please, as your partner speaks to you listen carefully, this way you can use the one that is the most subtle of the touches.
Question 2: What’s a sound I make that turns you on instantly? This on right here I try to excel at. Me personally I like voice notes and whispers. My sweetie has paid a great deal of attention to this one. The way he can whisper the dirtiest of things and sounds. If you see us after he does either of these two things he has the most devilish grin on his face. It’s that quiet pervert in him that turns me on. The quick whisper as you stand close.
Question 3: If I gave you full control for a night, what would happen? The element of surprise. This can be a uniquely beautiful and intimate evening. Allowing yourself to be submissive during the entire encounter. Now for some of you that is a little easier said than done. The art of letting go and giving yourself completely. Trust is necessary when engaging in this activity. Primarily there must be mutual respect for boundaries.
Question 4: If we played a little game of telephone and I whisper in your ear it’s your move. What can I expect from you? This can be tricky, because this for me is about how nasty I’m trying to be that night. My sweetie may see it another way. This is why this one comes with conversation. Each of us has some kind of kinky living inside of them. This is an exploration question.
Question 5: What’s a scene from a movie or show that you’ve secretly wanted to recreate with your partner? Boy, do I have one? My sweetie is well aware that Ving Rhames / A.J. Johnson in the kitchen in “Baby Boy” is at the top of my list. Hello, if I must be honest bounce me up and down on your lap like I’m riding a pogo stick. If I’m honest that scene lives rent free in my fantasies, it’s a shame. Some partners it could be a scene from a movie, tv show, or some other form of visual entertainment.
As always ladies please use your knowledge of self and your partner to stay safe and sexy. Keep it spicy in that bedroom.
Love Always, Ngina
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